A good friend's fiance just returned from his bachelor party. Another good friend's husband also just returned from a similar event. Of course, the boys had to be boys, and go to your friendly neighborhood strip club. What is up with strip clubs??? I've been to one, actually several, with Tony. The first time was....hmmmm.... interesting. I had to keep reminding myself not to gawk and to shut my mouth. After that, it just became boring.
So what is it about men and strip clubs? Why is that just "what you do" on a bachelor party? I know men are visual and all that BS, but don't you think they should feel awkward about some strange girl that gets paid to rub her ta tas all over them? It's a J O B to them....not a D A T E.
I keep telling myself I'm not going to care if he goes to one. I know he's not going to kiss her or anything like that....but I hate the thought of another woman rubbing her body all over him. Does that make me jealous? Does that make me a woman who isn't confident enough about her relationship? Do the women that say "I don't care if he goes" really mean it?
Thoughts??
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So my honest opinion is that it should absolutely NOT be tolerated. I believe that our eyes should only remain on each other-there is no tempation or desire for someone else, then. I'm really fortunate that Dave hasn't gone with the guys when they have gone to strip clubs b/c he knows how I feel about it. The ex...notsomuch. Anyway, I feel the same way about porn...I think I should have been born in a different time when this stuff wasn't as common!!!
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